12-Week Study & Discussion Guide

Cultivate

by Lara Casey·85 discussion questions

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1.Casey opens by confessing that she spent years chasing a picture-perfect life — the right look, the right career, the right image — only to find herself empty. What is your version of that pursuit? What have you been striving after that has left you feeling more depleted than fulfilled?

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Lara Casey's Cultivate: A Grace-Filled Guide to Growing an Intentional Life is an honest, hope-filled invitation to trade the frantic pursuit of a perfect life for the slow, faithful work of growing a good one. Drawing on her own story of broken relationships, miscarriage, business pressures, and a garden that taught her more than she expected, Casey argues that meaningful growth is never instant — it is cultivated. The central thesis is deceptively simple: the same principles that turn a barren patch of dirt into a thriving garden apply to every area of our lives. We prepare the soil, we plant seeds with intention, we pull weeds, we water with patience, and we trust God for the harvest. The result is not a picture-perfect Instagram life, but something far better — a life deeply rooted in what actually matters.

This study guide is designed for use over twelve weeks, either in a small group or in personal study. Each week, read the assigned chapter (or chapters, in the case of the shorter introductory and closing sections), then sit with the discussion questions in a journal before gathering with others to talk. There is no right answer to most of these questions — their purpose is to slow you down and help you see your own life more clearly. If you are using this guide individually, consider writing out your responses and revisiting them at the end of the study to see how your thinking has grown. Close each week's session in prayer, surrendering the specific area of life the chapter has surfaced.

By the end of this guide, you will have moved through the full arc of Casey's argument — from acknowledging the exhaustion of striving for perfect, to learning to embrace imperfect progress, to building a concrete, grace-filled plan for your one real life. You will not walk away with a tidy five-step formula. You will walk away with something better: a clearer sense of what God is growing in you, the courage to tend it faithfully, and the deep-rooted confidence that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion.

Introduction — Tired of Striving

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Before diving into what it means to cultivate an intentional life, Lara Casey asks us to stop and honestly name the exhaustion we have been carrying — and consider whether there might be a better way.

1.Casey opens by confessing that she spent years chasing a picture-perfect life — the right look, the right career, the right image — only to find herself empty. What is your version of that pursuit? What have you been striving after that has left you feeling more depleted than fulfilled?

2.She describes the moment she realized that 'making it happen' on her own terms was actually working against her. Have you had a similar moment of recognition — a point where your own striving clearly wasn't working? What did that feel like?

3.The gardening metaphor is introduced early as the book's central image. What is your instinctive reaction to that metaphor? Does it feel hopeful, frustrating, or something else — and why?

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Chapter 1 — Unclutter

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1.Casey describes her own life as cluttered — not just physically, but with commitments, expectations, and identities that were suffocating the things she actually valued. What forms of clutter are most present in your life right now? (Think beyond stuff — think time, relationships, mental noise.)

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Chapter 2 — Prepare the Soil

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1.Casey uses the image of breaking up hard, compacted soil as a metaphor for preparing our hearts and lives to receive growth. What does 'hard soil' look like in your life right now — areas that have become resistant, closed off, or difficult to work with?

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Chapter 3 — Plant What Matters

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1.Casey argues that most of us are planting things by default — by the habits, patterns, and yeses we drift into — rather than by intentional choice. What are you currently planting in your life by default that you haven't consciously chosen?

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Chapter 4 — Water with Prayer

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1.Casey is candid about her own struggles with prayer — that it has felt dry, rote, or impossible to sustain. How would you honestly describe your current prayer life? Is it watering your life, or has it become more of an afterthought?

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Chapter 5 — Pull Weeds

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1.Casey describes how weeds in her garden were not obviously evil plants — they looked, at first glance, like they might belong there. What 'weeds' in your life currently look respectable or neutral but are actually stealing resources from what you are trying to grow?

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Chapter 6 — Tend with Patience

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1.Casey describes the temptation to dig up a seed to check if it's growing — something every impatient gardener has done and every impatient person has done in their own life. What seeds have you dug up prematurely because you couldn't trust the process? What happened?

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Chapter 7 — Embrace Imperfect Progress

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1.Casey's central phrase in this chapter is 'imperfect progress is still progress.' How does that simple reframe land on you? Does it feel like permission, like lowering standards, or like genuine wisdom?

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Chapter 8 — Cultivate Community

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1.Casey opens this chapter by acknowledging that true community is rare, and that many of us have settled for surface-level connection because vulnerability feels too risky. Where would you honestly place your current closest relationships on a spectrum from 'surface-level' to 'genuinely known'?

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Chapter 9 — Grow Through Hard Seasons

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1.Casey shares her experience of pregnancy loss with striking vulnerability. How did her honesty in this chapter affect you? Did it open up something in your own experience of loss or grief?

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Chapter 10 — Celebrate the Harvest

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1.Casey observes that many goal-oriented, driven people move directly from one harvest to the next planting without ever stopping to celebrate what has grown. Is this true of you? What is your relationship with celebration and gratitude for progress?

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Review & Reflection — A Life Worth Cultivating

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Review your notes and journal entries from the full study of Cultivate by Lara Casey

1.Looking back across the entire book, which single chapter or concept was most personally significant to you? Why that one? What nerve did it touch that others didn't?

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