Desiring God by John Piper
Week 4: Chapter 3 — Love: The Labor of Christian Hedonism
Read Chapter 3 of Desiring God. Key Scripture: Matthew 22:37–39; 2 Corinthians 9:7; Philippians 2:3–4
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Piper now tests his thesis against the most demanding ethical command — love your neighbor — and argues that even love for others must flow from joy, not obligation.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.The title of this chapter calls love "the labor of Christian Hedonism." What does Piper mean by the word "labor" here? How can something that is joyful also be laborious?
2.Piper confronts a natural objection: Isn't true love for others selfless? Doesn't it require setting aside our own desire for joy? His answer is surprising — he argues that the most loving act we can do for another person is to overflow with joy in God. Explain this in your own words. Do you find it convincing?
3.Piper points to 2 Corinthians 9:7 — "God loves a cheerful giver" — as evidence that the *manner* of giving matters, not just the act. A grudging act of service does not fully glorify God, even if it meets someone's need. How does this apply to the way you serve others in your own life?