16-Week Study & Discussion Guide

Heaven Is for Real

by Todd Burpo·68 discussion questions

Week 1 — FreeRead the Author's Note and Chapters 1–3 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: John 14:1-3; Hebrews 11:1

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1.Todd Burpo is introduced not just as a pastor, but as a man who works multiple jobs — garage-door installer, volunteer firefighter, wrestling coach — to support his family. How does this portrait of an ordinary, hardworking father shape the way you receive the story he's about to tell?

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About This Study Guide

Heaven Is for Real by Todd Burpo (with Lynn Vincent) tells the remarkable story of Colton Burpo, a four-year-old boy from Imperial, Nebraska, who nearly died during an emergency appendectomy in March 2003. In the months and years that followed, Colton began sharing details about what he had experienced — describing events that happened in the operating room while he was unconscious, recognizing people he had never met, and painting a vivid picture of heaven that his parents had never taught him. Through the eyes of a pastor-father wrestling with grief, doubt, and wonder, the book invites readers to take seriously the biblical promise that heaven is not a myth or a metaphor, but a real place prepared for real people.

This study guide is designed for small groups or individual study, one chapter (or cluster of short chapters) per week. The recommended pattern is simple: read the assigned chapter before your meeting, spend a few minutes journaling your initial reactions, then work through the discussion questions together — or alone, if you are studying individually. Each week closes with a prayer rooted in the themes of that chapter. You do not need a theology degree to engage this material; the most important thing you bring is an honest heart and a willingness to ask hard questions alongside easy ones.

By the end of this guide you will have walked through the entire Burpo family's story, examined what the Bible says about heaven at each step, and — most importantly — considered what a confident hope in heaven changes about how you live today. Heaven is not just a destination; it is a lens through which ordinary life looks entirely different.

Week 1: Introduction & Background — The Burpo Family

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Read the Author's Note and Chapters 1–3 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: John 14:1-3; Hebrews 11:1

1.Todd Burpo is introduced not just as a pastor, but as a man who works multiple jobs — garage-door installer, volunteer firefighter, wrestling coach — to support his family. How does this portrait of an ordinary, hardworking father shape the way you receive the story he's about to tell?

2.Before reading this book, what was your working picture of heaven? Where did that picture come from — the Bible, hymns, movies, funerals, or somewhere else?

3.The Burpo family endures a string of painful events in 2003 — Todd's broken leg, kidney stones, a hyperplastic breast mass — all before Colton's crisis. Todd reflects that this season felt like a spiritual assault. Have you ever experienced a season where hardships seemed to pile on? What did that do to your faith?

a.Did you interpret the suffering as discipline, testing, attack, or something else — and does that interpretation matter?

b.How did the Burpos' response to suffering compare to your own instincts?

4.Sonja Burpo is portrayed as a steady, faith-filled counterpart to Todd's more emotionally demonstrative personality. How does the dynamic between Todd and Sonja reflect a healthy model of processing fear and grief together as a couple or community?

5.Todd describes the moment he realized Colton's appendix had ruptured and the gravity of what they were facing. What does the raw fear of losing a child reveal about what we actually believe — versus what we say we believe — about heaven and eternal life?

6.Hebrews 11:1 defines faith as 'the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' As you begin this book, where would you honestly place yourself on the spectrum from doubt to confident hope regarding heaven?

Week 2: Chapters 4–7 — The Crisis and the Operating Room

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Read Chapters 4–7 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Psalm 22:24; Luke 18:15-17

1.Colton's appendix had been ruptured for at least five days before surgery. The Burpos had taken him to doctors who initially misdiagnosed him. Have you ever felt that God seemed absent or slow during a crisis? How do you reconcile that feeling with belief in a caring God?

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Week 3: Chapters 8–10 — Colton Starts Talking

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Read Chapters 8–10 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Matthew 18:1-5; 1 Corinthians 2:9

1.Colton's first disclosure — telling his parents that angels had sung to him while he sat in Jesus' lap — came months after surgery, casually, during a family car ride. Why do you think significant spiritual experiences often surface in ordinary, unguarded moments rather than in formal settings?

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Week 4: Chapters 11–13 — People Colton Met in Heaven

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Read Chapters 11–13 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Luke 16:19-31; Revelation 7:9-10

1.Colton tells his parents he met 'Pop' — Todd's grandfather — in heaven, describing him as a young man with no glasses, though Colton had only ever seen photos of an elderly Pop. Todd's father visibly weeps when shown an old photo and Colton identifies him. What emotional weight does this detail carry, and why do you think the detail of *age* (Pop being young) particularly struck Todd?

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Week 5: Chapters 14–16 — What Heaven Looks Like

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Read Chapters 14–16 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Revelation 21:1-5, 21:18-21; John 14:2-3

1.Colton describes heaven as having gates made of gold and pearl, streets of gold, and colors more vivid than anything on earth. These images echo Revelation 21. How do you personally interpret those images — literally, symbolically, or somewhere in between? Does Colton's account push you more in one direction?

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Week 6: Chapters 17–19 — Jesus, the Holy Spirit, and the Throne Room

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Read Chapters 17–19 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Isaiah 6:1-5; Revelation 4:1-11; John 4:24

1.Colton describes God the Father as 'really big' — so big He can hold the earth in His hands, in contrast to Jesus who is 'bigger than us but not as big as Dad.' This echoes the kind of vivid, concrete language children use for things they cannot fully articulate. How do you hold together the transcendence of God (incomprehensibly vast) with the intimacy of God (a Father who knows us by name)?

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Week 7: Chapters 20–22 — Angels, Spiritual Warfare, and the Coming War

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Read Chapters 20–22 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Ephesians 6:10-18; Revelation 19:11-16; Daniel 10:12-13

1.Colton describes angels as having swords to keep Satan out of heaven, and he mentions with surprising confidence that there is going to be a war and Jesus wins. How does this picture of a combative, militant heaven sit with you? Does it fit with the Jesus you know from the Gospels?

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Week 8: Chapters 23–25 — Doubt, Evidence, and Todd's Wrestling

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Read Chapters 23–25 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: John 20:24-29; Hebrews 11:6; Romans 8:16

1.Todd admits that even as Colton's father — even having heard detail after detail he cannot explain — he still has moments of wondering, 'Did this really happen?' What does his continued honesty about doubt tell you about the nature of faith? Is doubt a sign of weak faith, or can it coexist with genuine belief?

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Week 9: Chapters 26–27 — Heaven and the Cross

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Read Chapters 26–27 of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: Revelation 5:6-14; Galatians 2:20; Colossians 1:19-20

1.Colton describes Jesus as still having 'markers' — nail holes in his hands and feet — in heaven. Revelation 5:6 describes the Lamb appearing 'as if it had been slain' at the center of heaven's throne room. Why does it matter that the glorified, risen Jesus still bears the marks of crucifixion? What does that tell us about the cross's permanent significance?

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Week 10: Chapter 28 & Epilogue — Heaven Changes Everything

All 6 questions

Read Chapter 28 and the Epilogue of Heaven Is for Real. Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 4:17-18; Philippians 3:20-21; 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

1.Todd writes that Colton's experience did not just give him a story to tell — it gave him a confidence that reshaped his whole ministry, especially how he comforts grieving families. Has this book changed the way you would approach comforting someone who is dying or grieving? If so, how?

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Week 11: Review & Reflection — Looking Back, Looking Forward

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Review your notes and journal entries from the entire book. Key Scriptures: John 14:1-6; Revelation 21:1-5; 1 Corinthians 15:19-22

1.Which week or chapter of this study had the greatest impact on you — and what specifically did it stir up? Was it a moment of comfort, conviction, challenge, or wonder?

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