Captivating by John Eldredge & Stasi Eldredge
Week 4: Chapter 3 — Haunted by a Question
Read Chapter 3 of Captivating. Key Scripture: Psalm 139:13–16; John 4:1–26.
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Every woman carries a question — 'Am I lovely? Am I worth pursuing? Do I have what it takes to be truly loved?' — and this chapter explores how deeply that question shapes the whole of a woman's life.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.The Eldredges describe a question that haunts women: 'Am I captivating? Am I lovely?' How have you seen this question — answered or unanswered — shape the choices and relationships in your own life?
2.The chapter distinguishes the question a man lives from ('Do I have what it takes?') and the question a woman lives from ('Am I captivating?'). Do these ring true to you? Have you seen this dynamic play out in the men and women around you?
3.The authors suggest that women look for the answer to this question in many places — their appearance, their relationships, their achievements, their role as mother or wife. Where have you most often gone to find the answer to your own heart's question?
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