Week 1: Introduction — Becoming Love
Free — no cardRead the Introduction of Everybody, Always by Bob Goff. Key passage: 1 Corinthians 13:4–8.
Bob opens this book not with a program or a plan, but with a person — Jesus — and a posture: becoming love rather than merely doing loving things. As you read, ask yourself what the difference between those two really is.
1.Bob's books are built on the conviction that love is something you become, not just something you do. In your own words, what do you think he means by that distinction, and why does it matter?
2.From the very start, Goff is clear that loving 'everybody, always' is not a self-help formula — it's a description of how Jesus loves us. How does grounding this idea in Jesus change the stakes of the challenge?
3.Bob describes himself as someone who learned most of what he knows about love the hard way — through failure, awkwardness, and showing up imperfectly. Does that make his invitation feel more or less accessible to you? Why?
a.Is there a time in your own life when a mistake or failure actually taught you something important about loving others?
b.What does it say about God that He seems to work through our messes rather than waiting for us to get it right first?