Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Week 6: Chapter 5 — Confession and Communion
Read Chapter 5 ('Confession and Communion') of Life Together. Primary Scripture: James 5:16; 1 John 1:8-9.
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Bonhoeffer saves his most penetrating chapter for last — the argument that real Christian community is only possible where people are willing to bring the darkness into the light.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.Bonhoeffer opens by observing that many Christians live in a condition of secret sin and private shame, experiencing 'the burden of hidden sin' — confessing to God but never to another person. He argues this leaves people in a kind of prolonged spiritual loneliness. Have you ever experienced the isolation that comes from carrying an unconfessed sin that only God (and you) know about?
2.His central argument is that in confession to a brother or sister, the cross of Christ becomes *concrete* — we experience forgiveness not just as an abstract theological truth but as something spoken to us by a human voice in a specific moment. Why might the *embodied*, *spoken* experience of forgiveness be important, rather than just the internal certainty of it?
a.Bonhoeffer writes: 'The cross of Jesus Christ destroys all pride.' How does the act of confessing to another person function as a death to pride?
b.Have you ever experienced (given or received) the kind of confession Bonhoeffer describes? What happened?
3.He warns against two dangers in the practice of confession. First, the danger of making confession into a *psychological* exercise — a form of therapy — rather than a genuine encounter with the grace of God. Second, the danger of the confessor becoming a spiritual authority figure who holds power over the one confessing. How do these dangers show up in contemporary Christian communities?
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