Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp
Week 5: Chapter 4 — Law
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This chapter takes on one of the most common traps in Christian parenting: using the rules of the home as a substitute for the gospel rather than as a pointer to it.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Tripp argues that rules are necessary and good in a home, but that rules without the gospel produce either rebellion or self-righteousness. How have you seen both of those outcomes play out — in your home, or in homes you have observed?
2.He makes a distinction between external conformity and heart transformation. What is the difference, and why does Tripp say that achieving the first without the second is actually a spiritual danger?
3.Many parents feel successful when their children comply — they stop the bad behavior, and peace is restored. Why does Tripp say that settling for compliance is undershooting the true goal of parenting?
a.What is actually happening in a child's heart when they comply outwardly without being moved inwardly?
b.What opportunity does a child's rule-breaking actually open up for gospel conversation?