Parenting by Paul David Tripp
Week 5: Principle 4 — Parenting Is War
Read Chapter 4 of Parenting by Paul David Tripp.
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Tripp's fourth principle introduces a sobering but clarifying reality: you are not simply managing a household — you are engaged in a spiritual battle for the hearts of your children. Come ready to think seriously about the nature of that war.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Tripp uses the framework of spiritual warfare to describe parenting. What does he mean by this, and why does he think so many parents fail to see their family life in these terms?
2.He identifies the real enemy — not your child's behavior, not your difficult circumstances, but the spiritual forces at work to capture young hearts. How does identifying the right enemy change the way you respond to conflict in your home?
3.Tripp argues that because parenting is war, passivity is not neutral — it is a form of surrender. Where are you most tempted toward passivity as a parent? What rationalizations do you use?
a.Is it in the area of spiritual conversation?
b.In the area of discipline and follow-through?
c.In being present and engaged rather than distracted?