Respectable Sins by Jerry Bridges

Week 15: Chapter 14 — Envy and Jealousy

Read Chapter 14 of Respectable Sins. Key Scripture: Proverbs 14:30; 1 Corinthians 13:4; Romans 13:13.

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Envy and jealousy are sins we are unlikely to confess because they are so deeply embarrassing — they reveal that other people's good fortune feels like our loss.

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1.Bridges distinguishes envy (wanting what someone else has and resenting them for having it) from jealousy (fearing the loss of something that is rightfully yours). Which of these do you more often experience, and in what contexts?

2.He notes that envy is peculiarly corrosive because it is never satisfied by receiving good things — it is only temporarily relieved when others lose theirs. Have you ever noticed this dynamic in your own heart: feeling momentarily better when someone more successful experienced a setback?

3.Proverbs 14:30 says envy 'rots the bones.' What does that visceral image communicate about the internal damage envy does to the person who holds it? Have you experienced this kind of internal corrosion?

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