Week 1: Introduction — The Sacred Adventure

1.Thomas opens by distinguishing Sacred Parenting from most parenting books. What is the central question he is NOT asking, and what question is he asking instead? Why does that shift matter?

2.Thomas compares the spiritual dynamics of parenting to those he explored in Sacred Marriage. Have you ever thought of parenting — like marriage — as a path to holiness rather than primarily a path to happiness or fulfillment? What does that reframe feel like to you?

3.He openly admits from the beginning that this book will not shy away from the difficulties and failures of parenting. Why do you think so many books and conversations about parenting avoid those harder realities? What happens to parents who feel they can't admit the struggle?

4.Thomas suggests that God uses parenting to form the character of Christ within us. What images or experiences from your own parenting life come to mind when you hear that claim? Does it ring true, or does it feel like a stretch?

5.The introduction frames parenting as a 'sacred adventure.' What word would you have used to describe your parenting life before picking up this book? How does the word 'sacred' change — or challenge — that description?

6.As you begin this study, what is the one area of your parenting life where you most hope God will meet you? Share it with your group if you feel comfortable, and hold it as a lens through which you read the rest of the book.