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The Cost of Discipleship by Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Week 1: Introduction — Costly Grace vs. Cheap Grace

Read the Preface and Chapter 1 of The Cost of Discipleship ("Costly Grace"). Key passages: Matthew 13:44-46; Luke 14:25-33.

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Bonhoeffer opens with one of the most famous sentences in modern Christian writing — take your time with it, and ask yourself honestly which kind of grace you have been living with.

Discussion Questions

8 questions

1.Bonhoeffer's opening salvo is: "Cheap grace is the deadly enemy of our Church." Before engaging his argument, what does that phrase stir up in you? Does it sound liberating, alarming, or unfair?

2.Bonhoeffer defines cheap grace as "the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, communion without confession, absolution without personal confession." In your own words, what makes grace "cheap" in his framework — and why does he call it deadly rather than merely inadequate?

3.He then defines costly grace: "It is costly because it costs a man his life, and it is grace because it gives a man the only true life." How does this paradox — that the most demanding thing is also the most freeing — sit with you? Can you think of an experience in your own life where something costly turned out to be genuinely freeing?

4.Bonhoeffer argues that the Lutheran Reformation recovered costly grace but that within a generation, Lutheranism began mass-producing cheap grace — treating the doctrine of justification by faith as a license to live unchanged. Do you see a similar dynamic in any Christian traditions or communities you have been part of?

5.He describes the tragic figure of a Christian who, wanting to live fully in the world, grants himself absolution and goes on unchanged — and then says that such a person has cheapened both grace and the cross. What does this reveal about the relationship between how we think about grace and how we actually live?

a.Where, if anywhere, have you functionally treated grace as a license rather than a call?

b.What would it look like, concretely, to repent of cheap grace?

6.Bonhoeffer says that costly grace is "the call of Jesus Christ at which the disciple leaves his nets and follows." How does locating grace in a specific, personal call from Jesus change its character compared to locating grace in a doctrine or theological system?

7.He famously writes, "When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die." How does this connect to the gospel itself — to the death and resurrection of Jesus? Is Bonhoeffer being morbid, or is he pointing to something at the heart of Christian identity?

8.As you begin this book, what do you most hope to gain — and what are you most afraid of having challenged?

Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus, we confess that we have often preferred the grace that costs us nothing — forgiveness without repentance, your presence without your call, your cross as a symbol rather than a summons. Forgive us for making your costly gift cheap. As we begin this study, give us the courage to hear you calling us by name, bidding us to come and follow — even if the path leads somewhere we did not expect. Teach us that your grace, because it is real, demands everything; and that demanding everything, it gives us the only life worth living. Amen.

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