Week 1: Introduction — What Is the Love Dare?

1.The introduction opens with the image of a firefighter entering a burning building — an image that ties directly to the film *Fireproof*. What does that metaphor suggest about what it will cost to rescue a marriage in trouble?

2.The authors distinguish between love as a feeling and love as a commitment. In your own words, what is the difference, and why does this distinction matter for marriage?

3.The book is structured as a 40-day dare. Why do you think the authors chose 40 days specifically? What biblical patterns come to mind when you think of that number?

4.The introduction challenges readers not to give up before the 40 days are finished, even if their spouse does not respond. How do you personally react to that challenge? Does it feel fair or unreasonable, and why?

5.1 Corinthians 13 is the backbone of this entire devotional. Read verses 4-8 aloud together. Which attribute of love listed there feels most out of reach for you personally right now?

6.The authors suggest that many people entered marriage with unrealistic expectations. What expectations did you bring into your marriage — spoken or unspoken — that have caused friction?

7.The Love Dare ultimately argues that only a heart surrendered to God can love unconditionally. Do you agree? Is it possible to love this way without a spiritual foundation? Why or why not?

8.As you begin this journey, what is your honest hope for what will be different in your marriage 40 days from now? Write it down and keep it — you will return to it in the final week.