Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Elliot
Week 5: Chapters 9–10 — Honor and Servanthood
Read Chapters 9–10 of Passion and Purity. Primary Scripture: Romans 12:10; Mark 10:42–45.
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Two words Elliot "dusts off" and applies directly to romance are honor and servanthood — concepts that sound ancient but, she argues, are exactly what our relationships are missing. Consider what they would actually look like in your life.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.What does Elliot mean by "honor" in the context of a romantic relationship? How is it different from simply respecting someone?
2.She argues that men, in particular, are called to honor women — to treat them not as objects of desire or conquest, but as bearers of God's image. How does the surrounding culture make this harder? How does the church sometimes fail to model it?
3.Elliot addresses the question: "Why should a man still be expected to initiate romance?" What is her answer? Do you agree with her reasoning, or do you find it culturally dated?
a.What does she say is at stake when men fail to initiate, or when women take over that role?
b.How does her argument connect to a theology of self-giving rather than simply a cultural preference?
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