Week 4: Chapter 3 — Love Language #2: Acts of Service

1.Chapman defines Acts of Service as doing things you know another person would like you to do — cooking a meal, helping with a move, fixing a broken shelf, running an errand. What are some Acts of Service that have meant the most to you personally? What made them feel like love rather than just practical help?

2.He notes that Acts of Service require time, energy, and often sacrifice — and that it is precisely the cost involved that makes them meaningful. Do you tend to take note of the effort someone has put into serving you, or do you receive practical help more matter-of-factly? What does your reaction reveal about your love language?

3.Chapman makes the important point that Acts of Service done out of guilt, fear, or obligation do not communicate love — only acts done freely and gladly do. Have you ever served someone out of obligation and found it draining rather than connecting? How did that contrast with times you served someone freely?