The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy J. Keller
Week 2: Chapter 1 — The Ego Problem
Read Chapter 1 of The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy Keller. Primary Scripture: 1 Corinthians 3:21–4:7.
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Keller gives us a sharp and uncomfortably accurate diagnosis of the human ego — not to discourage us, but so that we can finally name what we are dealing with.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.Keller argues that the natural human ego has three defining characteristics: it is empty, painful, and busy. Walk through each one. Which of the three resonates most with your own experience?
2.Keller describes the ego as 'empty' — not content to simply exist, but constantly needing outside input to feel significant. He says we are always comparing ourselves to others as a way of filling this void. Can you think of a recent moment when you caught yourself doing this — comparing yourself to someone to feel either better or worse about yourself?
3.The ego is also described as 'painful.' Keller notes that we are far more devastated by criticism and far more elated by praise than we should be if our identity were truly secure. On a scale of 1–10, how much does criticism typically affect you — and what does that number tell you about where your identity is resting?
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