The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy J. Keller

Week 3: Chapter 2 — The Solution

Read Chapter 2 of The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy Keller. Primary Scripture: 1 Corinthians 4:3-4.

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Having diagnosed the problem, Keller now turns to Paul's extraordinary alternative — an ego that has been transformed by the gospel into something neither proud nor crushed, but simply free.

Discussion Questions

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1.Keller describes the transformed ego as 'gospel-humble' — not low self-esteem, not high self-esteem, but something categorically different. How would you explain this distinction to someone who has never heard it before?

2.Keller famously uses C.S. Lewis's description of humility to make this point: the truly humble person does not think less of themselves — they think of themselves less. In your experience, what is the difference between those two things? Why does the distinction matter?

3.Paul says in 1 Corinthians 4:3 that he doesn't even judge himself — not that he is perfect, but that his ultimate verdict is not his to render. Keller calls this 'the verdict that is already in.' What specifically is that verdict, and where does it come from?

a.What has God declared about those who are in Christ (consider Romans 8:1, Ephesians 1:3-6)?

b.How does knowing the verdict is already decided change the way you approach a day when you feel like you have failed?

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