Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund
Week 13: Chapter 12 — His Ways Are Not Our Ways
Read Chapter 12 of Gentle and Lowly. Primary Scripture: Isaiah 55:6–9; Hosea 11:8–9.
This chapter confronts one of the deepest misreadings of God: projecting our own temperament onto him. When we assume God thinks and feels the way we do, we shrink him — and miss grace. Come ready to have your projection corrected.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Isaiah 55:8–9 famously declares that God's ways and thoughts are as high above ours as the heavens are above the earth. Ortlund applies this specifically to God's mercy — God does not extend mercy the way we do (grudgingly, with conditions, up to a point). Why is it significant that the transcendence of God is applied here to his mercy rather than his power or holiness?
2.The chapter draws on Hosea 11, where God watches Israel walk away from him and cries, "How can I give you up, O Ephraim?" In verse 9, God says, "I am God and not a man, the Holy One in your midst, and I will not come in wrath." What does God being "not a man" mean in this context? What specifically is God saying he will NOT do that a man would do?
3.Ortlund argues that when we are sinned against repeatedly, our capacity for mercy decreases — but with God, his capacity for mercy does not work that way. The very holiness that makes sin so serious also makes God's mercy so inexhaustible. How do holiness and mercy reinforce each other in God's character?
a.Think of a time when you felt your own patience with a person finally run out. What triggered the limit?
b.What does it mean to you that God does not have that trigger point?
Closing Prayer
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