Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund

Week 17: Chapter 16 — Nothing Can Separate Us

Read Chapter 16 of Gentle and Lowly. Primary Scripture: Romans 8:31–39.

Romans 8:31–39 is perhaps the most thunderous passage in the New Testament. This chapter explores what it means to have a Christ whose love cannot be separated from us — not by hardship, not by accusation, and not by our own sin. Come ready to have your insecurities answered.

Discussion Questions

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1.Romans 8:31 asks, "If God is for us, who can be against us?" Ortlund treats this not as a rhetorical question that shuts down all opposition but as a question that acknowledges real opposition — and then answers it with the greater reality of God's "for-ness." What does it mean for God to be "for" you? How is this different from God simply being kind or tolerant?

2.Paul lists a series of things that cannot separate us from the love of Christ: hardship, distress, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger, sword. These are all external sufferings. He then adds: height, depth, things present, things to come, powers, death, life, angels, rulers. What do these escalating lists suggest about the comprehensiveness of Christ's protective love?

3.Ortlund argues that the most threatening item on Paul's list, for most modern believers, is not persecution or danger but the fear that our own sin and failure will finally separate us from Christ's love. Where does Paul address this fear specifically in Romans 8? How does his argument hold?

a.Is there a pattern of sin in your life that you secretly fear might eventually push you beyond Christ's love? Name it honestly, at least to yourself.

b.How does Romans 8:33–34 (the Advocate language) directly address that fear?

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