Gentle and Lowly by Dane Ortlund

Week 8: Chapter 7 — He Can Deal Gently

Read Chapter 7 of Gentle and Lowly. Primary Scripture: Hebrews 5:1–3; Hebrews 4:14–16.

The book now turns to the book of Hebrews and its portrait of Jesus as our great High Priest — one uniquely qualified to deal gently with us because he has been where we are. These questions press into the doctrine that should change everything about how we pray.

Discussion Questions

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1.Hebrews 5:2 says a high priest "can deal gently with the ignorant and wayward" because he himself is "beset with weakness." Ortlund emphasizes the phrase "can deal gently" — it is a capacity, an ability shaped by experience. How does this shed light on why the incarnation was necessary, not just strategic?

2.The chapter makes much of the word "gentle" in Hebrews 5:2 (metriopathein in Greek) — a word that describes a middle path between cold detachment and excessive emotion. What does this calibrated, measured gentleness look like in practice when Christ deals with your sins and failures?

3.Ortlund draws a contrast between the Old Testament high priest (who had to offer sacrifice for his own sins as well as the people's) and Jesus, who is sinless yet fully sympathetic. How is it possible to be simultaneously sinless and genuinely sympathetic? How does Jesus' perfect obedience actually increase rather than decrease his compassion?

a.Think of someone in your life who has been through significant suffering and therefore shows deep compassion for others. Now imagine that person without any of their own failures — would they be more or less compassionate? Why?

b.How does Jesus' perfect navigation of temptation and suffering qualify him to sympathize with our imperfect navigation of the same?

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