Kingdom Man by Tony Evans
Week 5: Chapter 4 — A Man and His Marriage
Read Chapter 4 of Kingdom Man. Key Scripture: Ephesians 5:25–33; Genesis 2:18–25.
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The marriage relationship is one of the most visible domains of a kingdom man's leadership — and one of the most tested. These questions invite you into honest reflection about how well you are loving, serving, and leading your wife (or preparing to do so).
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Evans calls a man to be a 'servant-leader' in marriage — the one who sets the spiritual thermostat of the home. What does servant-leadership look like in marriage, and how is it different from domination on one side or passivity on the other?
2.Ephesians 5:25 calls husbands to love their wives 'as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.' Evans presses on the sacrificial nature of this love. In what specific ways is loving your wife (or future wife) costing you something? Where do you tend to protect yourself instead of giving yourself?
3.Evans draws on the Genesis 2 account, noting that the woman was taken from the man's side — not from under his foot or from over his head, but from beside him. What does that image communicate about how a kingdom man should regard and treat his wife?
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