Single. Dating. Engaged. Married. by Ben Stuart
Week 7: Chapter 6 — Engagement: The Purpose of the Season
Read Chapter 6 of Single, Dating, Engaged, Married. Key passages: Ruth 3-4; Proverbs 24:27
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Engagement is one of the most emotionally charged seasons of life — and one of the most important for preparing well. Stuart argues that this season has a specific purpose, and that it's possible to waste it. Come ready to think carefully about what this season is actually for.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Stuart defines engagement as a season of intentional preparation for marriage — not just wedding planning, but life preparation. How does that definition compare to how most engaged couples you know have approached it?
2.He argues that one of the greatest dangers of engagement is treating it as an emotional high to be enjoyed rather than a window for honest evaluation. What are the hard questions that should be asked during this season, and why do so many couples avoid them?
3.Stuart draws on the story of Ruth and Boaz as a model of a relationship that moved through distinct stages with integrity and purpose. What stands out to you about how Boaz pursued Ruth — particularly the way he took initiative, acted with honor, and was guided by wise counsel?
a.How does Boaz's approach challenge or affirm your assumptions about how pursuit should work?
b.What does Ruth's response model about receiving pursuit wisely?