Unglued by Lysa TerKeurst
Week 7: Chapters 11–12 — No Regrets: Responding Without Acting Out of Control
Read Chapters 11–12 of Unglued by Lysa TerKeurst. Primary Scripture: 1 Peter 3:8–9; Romans 12:17–21.
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In these final chapters, Lysa brings the whole journey together — inviting you to imagine what your relationships and your inner world will look like when imperfect progress becomes a settled way of life.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.Lysa's phrase "responding without regrets" captures the ultimate goal of this book. What would a regret-free response look like in your most challenging relationship? Try to be specific — what words would you use? What would you not say?
2.She talks about the difference between reacting (driven by the emotion of the moment) and responding (driven by values decided in advance). How has this study changed your understanding of that distinction? Does it feel more or less achievable than when you began?
3.Romans 12:17–21 instructs us not to repay evil for evil and to "overcome evil with good." How does that command land in your most difficult relationship right now — does it feel possible, idealistic, or somewhere in between?
a.What would it look like, practically, to "overcome evil with good" in that specific situation?
b.What does it cost you emotionally and spiritually to attempt it?