Disciplines of a Godly Man by R. Kent Hughes
Week 11: Chapter 10 — Discipline of Tongue
Read Chapter 10 of Disciplines of a Godly Man. Primary Scripture: James 3:1–12; Proverbs 18:21; Ephesians 4:29.
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Hughes argues that the tongue is both the most powerful instrument for good in a man's life and the most dangerous — and that a man of genuine godliness has brought his speech under sustained, deliberate discipline. Listen as you read: what does the way you speak reveal about what is in your heart?
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.James famously compares the tongue to a ship's rudder — a small thing that steers an enormous vessel (James 3:4). Hughes applies this to a man's life: the way you speak determines far more about the direction of your relationships and leadership than you might realize. Do you believe that? What evidence do you see of it in your own life?
2.Hughes identifies several specific speech patterns that undermine godliness: gossip, slander, coarse joking, empty flattery, and careless vows. Which of these is the most persistent temptation for you — and in what contexts does it most frequently appear?
3.Ephesians 4:29 sets the standard: let no corrupting talk come out of your mouth, but only what is good for building up. Hughes argues this is not about being quiet but about being constructive. What would it look like in your specific workplace, home, or friendships to consistently apply this standard?