Disciplines of a Godly Man by R. Kent Hughes
Week 18: Chapter 17 — Discipline of Attitudes
Read Chapter 17 of Disciplines of a Godly Man. Primary Scripture: Philippians 4:11–13; Romans 8:28; 1 Thessalonians 5:18.
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Hughes argues that a man's inner attitudes — contentment, gratitude, joy, humility — are not simply personality traits but spiritual disciplines that must be cultivated deliberately. Come to this session ready to honestly examine what your default emotional and mental postures actually are.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Paul says he has "learned" contentment (Philippians 4:11) — implying it was not natural to him and required a process. Hughes argues contentment is a discipline, not a temperament. What is the difference between someone who is naturally easygoing and someone who has learned genuine contentment?
2.Hughes identifies complaining, grumbling, and a spirit of entitlement as the primary enemies of contentment. Where do these attitudes most consistently show up in your own life — at home, at work, about the church, about circumstances?
3.The chapter addresses gratitude as a discipline — deliberately choosing to notice and give thanks for God's goodness rather than defaulting to a focus on what is missing or wrong. How intentional are you about cultivating gratitude? What practices help you do this?