Uninvited by Lysa TerKeurst
Week 13: Chapter 12 — The Part That Terrifies Me Most
Read Chapter 12 of Uninvited. Key Scripture: John 15:15 ("I no longer call you servants…Instead, I have called you friends.")
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Lysa gets personal here, naming the fear that is hardest to admit: that if people knew the real her — the whole, unedited version — they would reject her. This is the chapter about the terrifying gift of being truly known.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Lysa admits that one of her deepest fears is being truly and fully known — because being truly known means being truly reject-able. Do you carry that fear? What does it feel like to imagine someone knowing all of you?
2.She draws a distinction between being liked and being known. Many of us have traded depth of relationship for breadth of approval. Where do you see that trade-off in your own relational life?
3.Jesus calls His disciples friends — not servants — and says the marker of that friendship is that He has made known to them everything He heard from the Father. Real friendship is marked by revelation, not performance. How does that definition of friendship challenge the surface-level connections you maintain?
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