Uninvited by Lysa TerKeurst
Week 5: Chapter 4 — Steady, Girl
Read Chapter 4 of Uninvited. Key Scripture: Psalm 16:8 ("I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.")
Previewing Week 5 of Uninvited
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When rejection hits, our emotions can sweep us into reactions we later regret. Lysa calls us to the hard, daily work of steadying our souls — and gives us biblical and practical tools to do it.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Lysa talks about the moment when a fresh rejection hits and our whole nervous system lights up with the old, familiar pain. What does that moment typically feel like for you physically and emotionally?
2.She introduces the idea of "steadying our soul" as an active practice — something we choose, not something that just happens when we calm down. What is the difference between waiting for your feelings to settle and actively steadying your soul?
3.Psalm 16:8 describes keeping our eyes "always on the Lord" as the mechanism for not being shaken. How practically does fixing your gaze on God steady you when rejection is screaming for your attention?