For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn
Week 11: Chapter 10 — What Your Man Wishes You Knew: Listening for His Heart
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In her final chapter, Feldhahn brings together the themes of the book and offers what men themselves most want women to hear — a final, honest appeal from the men who answered her surveys, speaking to the women who love them.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.As you read the final chapter, what is the central message that Feldhahn believes men most want women to understand? Try to summarize it in one or two sentences in your own words.
2.Feldhahn emphasizes throughout the book that men are wired differently from women — not better or worse, but genuinely, specifically different. How has this book shifted (or challenged) your understanding of what 'different' means when it comes to men and women?
3.She also stresses that most men desperately want to be good husbands, fathers, and partners — they are not indifferent, even when they appear that way. How does choosing to believe the best about a man change the atmosphere of a relationship?
a.What do you believe about the man (or men) in your life at their core — do you believe they genuinely want to do right by you?
b.If you're not sure, what would it take to move toward that belief?