Niequist explores what it means to have been hiding — from herself, from God, from the people she loves — and what it costs to finally be found.

Discussion Questions

6 questions

1.Niequist uses the language of hiding — concealing the real self behind a curated, productive version of herself. In what areas of your life do you hide? What are you most afraid people would find if they looked more closely?

2.She describes the exhaustion of maintaining a public self that doesn't match the private one. Have you experienced that kind of double life, even in small ways? What does it cost you?

3.To be found, you have to stop running. What in your life — a relationship, a habit, a fear — do you keep running from rather than turning to face?

4.Niequist writes about the relief of being truly known, and the terror that precedes it. Who in your life knows the most honest version of you? What made that level of vulnerability possible?

5.The biblical story of Adam and Eve hiding from God after the Fall is the oldest version of this dynamic. How does the gospel — God coming to seek and find rather than condemn — change the emotional posture with which you might approach being honest about who you actually are?

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