Try Softer by Aundi Kolber
Week 10: Chapter 9 — Try Softer: Putting It All Together
Read Chapter 9 (and any Conclusion) of Try Softer by Aundi Kolber.
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In her final chapter, Kolber brings together all the threads she has woven — the body, the story, the emotions, the attachments, the inner critic, the limits — into a unified vision of what it means to truly live. Let these questions help you receive the invitation she is extending.
Discussion Questions
7 questions1.Kolber ends the book by returning to her central thesis: that we were made for a living, breathing, moving, feeling, connected, incarnational life. Looking back over the whole book, which of these words — living, breathing, moving, feeling, connected, incarnational — most names what you have been missing? Why?
2.She reiterates that trying softer is not a self-help program but a theological and relational orientation rooted in how God designed us. How has your understanding of "what healing looks like" changed through reading this book?
3.Kolber acknowledges that the try softer life will look different for every person — it is not a formula. What does it look like for you, specifically, given your history, your temperament, your current season of life?
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