His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley Jr.
Week 14: Review & Reflection
Review your notes and journal entries from Weeks 1–13 of His Needs, Her Needs.
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This final week is not about new content but about honest reckoning — looking back at what you have learned, what has already changed, and what you are committed to doing differently going forward.
Discussion Questions
8 questions1.Looking back across the entire book, which chapter or concept had the most impact on you — the one that most challenged, convicted, or encouraged you? Why that one?
2.Before reading this book, how would you have described your understanding of your spouse's deepest emotional needs? How has that understanding changed? Have you shared those insights with your spouse?
3.Harley's ten needs — sexual fulfillment, affection, recreational companionship, conversation, physical attractiveness, financial support, domestic support, family commitment, admiration, and honesty/openness — are described as common patterns, not universal laws. Which needs do you now recognize as most central in your own marriage, and do they follow Harley's his/her pattern, or have you discovered some surprises?
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